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So many times i hear women say that they are looking for a real nigga. i often ask myself what is a real nigga?? lol. I mean if you cant find a real one that means all the ones you come in contact with are fake right. Women who call men Niggas get exactly what they deserve, as for men who call women bitches but thats another day lol. How come yo ass cant be the fake one, what if yo ass is the reason why dudes treat you the way they do. Why don't you take yo ass to the mirror and look at yourself, ask yourself why my so called man don't wanna be with me!! Ask yourself why he don't want to be around you, why he'd rather be with the next than be with you. I'm pretty sure you can come up with a great solution for your problem.
Ladies if you want to find a good man you have to start looking in the right places. You cant go looking for love in the clubs. you not gone find him on the block grinding especially if he over 25 wtf is he grinding for lol. You also cant go looking for a dude to commit to you if you don't have a damn job! don't expect the guy to play step daddy to yo kids. if yo FB status is of you half naked eating grapes please don't expect any dude to wife you b/c they are not! its already hard enough for us as men to want to even settle down with one women when their are so many women out there just trying give theres away. So make sure your body is right, your skin is soft, and you can cook, clean, and count. that shhh goes a long way when dealing with men who want to stick around b/c the ones who does wants to eventually have a family.