What Is A Real NIGGA To Be Exact??

So many times i hear women say that they are looking for a real nigga. i often ask myself what is a real nigga?? lol. I mean if you cant find a real one that means all the ones you come in contact with are fake right. Women who call men Niggas get exactly what they deserve, as for men who call women bitches but thats another day lol. How come yo ass cant be the fake one, what if yo ass is the reason why dudes treat you the way they do. Why don't you take yo ass to the mirror and look at yourself, ask yourself why my so called man don't wanna be with me!! Ask yourself why he don't want to be around you, why he'd rather be with the next than be with you. I'm pretty sure you can come up with a great solution for your problem.

Ladies if you want to find a good man you have to start looking in the right places. You cant go looking for love in the clubs. you not gone find him on the block grinding especially if he over 25 wtf is he grinding for lol. You also cant go looking for a dude to commit to you if you don't have a damn job! don't expect the guy to play step daddy to yo kids. if yo FB status is of you half naked eating grapes please don't expect any dude to wife you b/c they are not! its already hard enough for us as men to want to even settle down with one women when their are so many women out there just trying give theres away. So make sure your body is right, your skin is soft, and you can cook, clean, and count. that shhh goes a long way when dealing with men who want to stick around b/c the ones who does wants to eventually have a family.

What is "Good Hair"

lmfao ::: I'm over here looking at this movie called good hair. its an HBO documentary on black hair and how black women idolize good hair. i mean I'm no stranger to the relaxers and the colors but when you start to pay thousands of dollars for human hair. i mean really though you cant find a more useful way to do something with the money... smdh. but my problem is that black people we are always trying to keep up with the Jone's as it is whether it be clothes, cars, homes, and lifestyle. know you have the phenomenon of the hair lol.. what will women do to keep they hair together right. i mean is it just important as keeping the lights on or the water running or do some women view their appearance more important. think about it... everybody else but the black woman has the luxury of washing her hair everyday if they want to.. put a lil mouse in it and throw a lil brush through it and they good. but they say that its not healthy for black women to wash they hair everyday cause it trips it of its natural texture but you can put somebody else hair on top or tangled with along with a relaxer glue or thread and let it sit under there for weeks unconditioned and dirty just to say you have good hair lol.. man this is beyond me.. somebody please talk to me!!!

dumb shhh

I recently got into an argument the other day right.. a girl told me that all atheletes should realize the positoin they are in and never ever should anybody mess up like the "vicks" the "placico's" and the "irvin's" man i told her that you just named 3 people n 3 years lol the police just want to make a story outta somebody every year n athletes are the easiest... i was like if an athlete get a dui its all over the news, even a speeding ticket you see it on thie sports ticker... dont let a girl get mad n say he hit here or threatended her omg shit is gone cause havoc lol not only for the person its gone be bad for the team and the entie franchise... as an athlete you cant allow yourself to slip up n act without thinking tcause the cosequense is too high... but check this out.. there are 32 teams n the nfl right with 55 man rosters plus practice squad n theres like 30 somthing teams n the nba with 15 man rosters n there 30 something teeams n mlb with 30 man rosters n alll you can come up wih is the shhh from years ago like one incident a year... man you gotta be good with that ratio... my point to her was please dont generalize with the athletes like that because i was n still is to heart an athlete n i know what they go through... especially when you young with money there is always somebody tryina get in them pockets wheteher it be they family, some haters, the law, or ome skank... bra is being plotted on lol

Misery loves company

think about it... have you ever been n a relationship that you was tryina make work... tryina stick in there and grow with the next. All you want is for your friends to just help you and support you n your decisions, be there for you when you need them. but all you get from them is girl you need to just cut his ass and yo boys are like bra she aint no good for you lol. then you look at they relationship and realize that this person is lonelier than you are... hahahaha and would love nothing more than for you to spend most if not all your time with them.. and bash the old bf and gf and creep around and slutt bagg n have a partner n crime... so take a look n your circle n see who that is hell you never know it could be you lol .... talk to me!!!!?